Encouraging Conversation

Although there are a number of ways to help build your child's language and conversation skills, two of the most effective methods are simply talking to and interacting with them. This encouragement and interaction helps them to become more confident and competent in their communication ability.

As your child grows, you will notice how their skills change and develop; we've put together a handy guide to the changes to watch out for and the practical ways you can help your baby or toddler become a more skilful communicator.

Young Babies (0-8 months)

Young babies communicate in a variety of ways including crying, gurgling, babbling and squealing. Take some time to note the wide variety of sounds your baby produces and try to understand and respond to them. Use everyday routines such as changing, bathing, dressing and mealtimes to talk to, sing with and encourage your baby to vocalise.

Babies (8-18 months)

Babies enjoy exploring, experimenting and using words and sounds to signify objects around them. Make sure that you listen closely to the sounds and early words your baby uses and show that they understand them; for example by bringing the doll in response to "baba". Try to encourage exploration and imitation of sound by providing objects such as plastic bottles filled with sand, water or gravel.

Young Children (18-24 months)

Young children use single word and two word statements to convey simple and more complex messages. Pay close attention to the meanings your child generates in their language through the creative ways in which they combine words. Show your child that you recognise and appreciate their efforts when they show understanding of new words and phrases. You might want to think about using everyday objects found in the home such as a sponge, plastic pan scrub or soft nail brush for your child to explore, investigate and talk about.

Children (2-3 years)

Children use language as a powerful means of widening contacts, sharing feelings, thoughts and experiences. Listen to your child as they begin to combine words, to ask questions, describe and predict. Provide them with plenty of opportunities to talk with other children and adults about what they think, see, hear and feel. Encourage conversation by role playing and dressing up. Trips out to the park, shops, or libraries will help them to meet others and express their feelings and thoughts.