Being sexually alluring is so much more than appearance; genuine sexiness comes from within. People with a healthy level of self-confidence tend to feel comfortable with themselves and are happy with their own self-image. They are likely to be more relaxed and act more genuinely, allowing their natural sex appeal to shine from inside. Although they may not necessarily be super-model beautiful or drop-dead handsome, they possess an unshakable assuredness of their worth, and feel at ease with their personality, body and sexuality.
In fact, studies have shown that only 20% of lasting sex appeal is based on a person's physical appearance; 20% reflects their intelligence and what they have to say and the remaining 60% comes from having a genuine confidence in themselves.
It's easy to see why. Truly confident people have an engaging attitude and a sense of vitality that draws others to them. They are proud of what they have and who they are, which makes other people want to find out more. Compare that to someone who doesn't think much of themselves, and is almost apologetic for who they are. If they don't think they're worth much - why would anybody else?
